hi i just read both your posts regarding adon well you to both have a great attitude to life and love, i have a indonesian fiance and i am older than him, and people have cast disgraced looks at us in public, but we are very happy, been together for 5yrs , and boy have we done some travelling together, and had the greatest of cultural exchanges, taught each other our languages, and our respective families visit each other, his family is in business in bali and singapore, so we consider each other lucky, but at the end of the daythe disgusted looks and comments, usually come from westeners, the indonesians dont give a toss they usaully say if you are happy take it and enjoy it, anyhow guys you just made my day reding these lovely posts, happy new year to you all and one day i would love to meet you both, and have a binny or three and chew the fat love from sury