In Reply to: Travelling solo to Bali... posted by dlush on Sunday, 31. October 2004 at 16:02 Bali Time:
That's the Balinese version of nightie night ,I'm off to bed,Goodnight.I posted the message above before I read everything that's posted below in this thread.
I've got a few things I'd like to say as an outsider who doesn't know you ( if you don't take offence)Unfortunately I am not as lucky as you to have had a sister or a brother to share any of my life with.If you think you stuffed up & hurt your darling sister's feelings - Say Sorry.Even if you think SHE stuffed up along the way,still Say Sorry.Really think about it - How much does it cost you to Say Sorry vs How much does it cost you to see you & your sister in pain & fighting or not getting on ? I am sure it's not worth it?
Long after your Mum & Dad have gone there will be the 2 of you.You must have shared so much over the years. & have such a special bond,even IF it does feel like it's buried deep at the moment.
You may disagree but I think there is nothing more important in life than family & their love - next on the list is special friends.Do you best to sort this little tif out with your sister.I'm sure you will be a lot happier if you do.I sincerely hope I have not offended you by anything I have said.