In Reply to: Not the same posted by Murid on Monday, 1. January 2001 at 08:03 Bali Time:
I have lived in Indonesia long enough to agree with what was said previously,ie:people are more worried about losing face or offending others than displaying the emotions they really feel.Whether this is with a raised voice or not is not the point I was trying to get across.
I know that some people are perfectly calm when they are angry but are still able to express that anger.What I meant was the pretence that all is ok when it is not.