In Reply to: number 6 posted by Guru on Monday, 1. January 2001 at 05:58 Bali Time:
Whilst it may seem a 'nice' trait to never raise ones voice,I have to agree with guru on this one.My husband is Indonesian and it really gets me when he won't convey his feelings of anger or discontent.Luckily I know him well enough to know when he really is angry (even though he tries to hide it!) or when he disagrees.He is all smiles but its a differnent kind of smile to his genuine happy smile.It is said that Indonesians have a different kind of smile for every emotion.